150 Things to Say to a Guy to Turn Him On 

Words like “I missed the taste of you” and “I need you to fill me” can quickly turn a guy on.

There are still other options, and it boils down to knowing what his ‘button’ is. Basically, you have to use words to paint a dallying picture of both of you having intercourse. 

Most guys love talking dirty, but I’ve noticed that many women prefer to leave this aspect of the relationship to the man. Deep down, guys love it when you also talk dirty to them. 

You may be struggling to find the right nasty things to say to a guy, especially if you want to make him hard down there. 

In this article, you will see 100+ things you can say or send over text to your man to make him horny and fully ready to make you happy in the other room. 

Pro Tip:

• I can’t share my most intense and wild text ideas online because of editorial rules, so I send them out in a private and discreet email newsletter. You can also get personalized dirty text message ideas that are more likely to work for your guy based on the context you provide us. To get these, just send a personal email, and I’ll respond quickly.

List of the Best Things to Say to Turn Him On

Indeed, it may seem intimidating to talk dirty, especially when you really want him in that mood.

And you can’t be walking around all day thinking of what the next sultry thing to tell him would be. 

So, with these dirty talk examples, you can easily copy and paste into his inbox to turn your man on. You can even tell him physically. 

1. I missed the taste of you.

 

2. I need you to fill me

 

3. I’m thinking about all the nasty things I want to do with you when you get home.

 

4. If I said you could do anything to me, ANYTHING, what would you choose?

 

5. I keep thinking about your kisses all over me.

 

6. I just want to give you the best time ever, everywhere.

 

7. Remember that fun time we had in bed? It’s stuck in my mind.

 

8. Can you guess what I’m wearing?

 

9. I miss you a lot in bed.

 

10. Hey, I’m really turned on thinking about you. 

 

11. I had a super intimate dream about you last night. Do you want to guess what happened? 

 

12. Let’s spend all day together this weekend. In bed!

 

13. If you guess the color of my panties, I’ve got a special treat for you.

 

14. What’s your wildest fantasy about me?

 

15. I’ve got a surprise for you tonight. Be prepared 

 

16. Want a reward tonight? Guess where my hands are right now.

 

17. I Can’t stop thinking about what I want to do to you tonight.

 

18. How about we watch some naughty stuff together and maybe try it out?

 

19. Have you ever thought about doing it in a daring place?

 

20. Right now, I just want your hands on me. Down there.

 

21. I Had a really naughty thought about you, but I can’t text it!

 

22. I have something special in mind for tonight. Get ready.

 

23. I want you, now. 

 

24. I’ve been a bit naughty today. Maybe I deserve punishment.

 

25. Tonight’s outfit: only heels.

 

26. You get three wishes for tonight. What’ll they be?

 

27. Guess what’s on my mind? Here’s a hint: lips wrapped around something.

 

28. Feeling frisky, and you’re not here. Looks like it’s a solo mission with you on my mind.

 

29. Something’s missing today—you, between my legs.

 

30. Today’s a tough day to focus. Keep thinking about our last time together.

 

31. Just stepped out of the shower.

 

32. It’s time to try that new move we’ve been talking about. 

 

33. Wish I could skip work and blow your mind.

 

34. Got some new undies and a bra. I think you’ll approve.

 

35. I want you on top, like, right now!

 

36. Let’s make a romantic movie together!

 

37. Got something new to try in bed. 

 

38. Work’s tough today because I’m daydreaming about us in bed.

 

39. Mind if I drop by for lunch? 

 

40. Share a dirty secret with me.

 

41. You know what I love? Sucking on things…

 

42. What’s your favorite memory of us together?

 

43. Can’t wait to get intimate with you!

 

44. I want to hear you moan… 

 

45. Should I go commando tonight?

 

46. Let’s set up a mirror next to the bed and watch ourselves while making love.

 

47. You’re so good; you could teach a lovemaking class.

 

48. FaceTime me now, and I promise you’ll like what you see.

 

49. I want to play cop and make you my willing captive.

50. Our bodies fit together perfectly.

 

51. Where’s the wildest place we could make love?

 

52. When you get back from work, get ready because I have some naughty plans for you.

 

53. I’ve been thinking a lot about smooching you.

 

54. Thinking about you made me wet down there.

 

55. Do you want to play a game together?

 

56. Want to see my new toy?

 

57. I have a few things on my to-do list tonight. Want to help me with them?

 

58. I don’t understand why you make me feel so turned on.

 

59. So, what do you think about using adult toys?

 

60. I’ve been practicing yoga, and now I’m really flexible for you. 

 

61. I really want to try out something I saw in an X-rated video.

 

62. Everything about you makes me feel excited! I can’t control it.

 

63. I hope you’re not too tired because you’ll need all your energy tonight.

 

64. The moment you come home, I want your clothes off right away!

 

65. Guess what? I can text with one hand now. Can you guess where my other hand is?

 

66. so that you know, I’m not wearing any underwear at the moment.

 

67. If you’re good until we’re alone, I have a surprise for you.

 

68. I love hearing your breath in my ear when I make you feel good.

 

69. You won’t be able to move after I’m done with you tonight.

 

70. I’m so excited to see you later; it’s making me really turned on.

 

71. Remembering our last time together really gets me excited.

 

72. I can’t wait for the next chance to be close to you.

 

73. Just thinking about you today has made me go through three pairs of panties…

 

74. If you’re good, I’ll give you precisely what you want.

 

75. Tonight, I want to start with pecking you on your lips and work my way down… how far? Well, that’s up to you.

 

76. I hate being stuck at work when I could be at home with you, doing naughty things.

 

77. Counting down the minutes until tonight…

 

78. I want to make you feel excellent with oral pleasure.

 

79. I can’t help but touch myself when I think about you.

 

80. Tonight, I want to give you a playful bite, like a love nibble.

 

81. Are you in for an exciting roleplay session? 

 

82. I’ve been thinking about having you for dessert tonight…

 

83. Let’s continue this conversation in private, shall we? In my room.

 

84. I want to give you a head. Like, right now. 

 

85. How fast can you go hard? I need it right now. 

 

86. I have a confession: I’ve been a bit naughty today, and maybe I deserve a little spanking. 

 

87. If only there were someone around to do it.

 

88. I crave being disciplined like a bad girl, Daddy…

 

89. Let’s make a steamy movie tonight.

 

90. It’s totally fine if you rip my clothes off when we’re getting undressed. Actually, I kind of like it like that.

 

91. I want you to take control of me completely, my love.

 

92. I bet I can make you feel perfect.

 

93. I picked up something for us to try together.

 

94. Just your kisses can get me all worked up sometimes.

 

95. Whenever I imagine us being intimate, I picture you taking control and doing whatever you want with me.

 

96. I miss it when you used to be the one in charge.

 

97. I’ve got a new idea for a position that I really want to try with you.

 

98. I woke up wet this morning

 

99. I want you in my mouth.

 

100. I love your body

 

101. I’m craving to be pounded all day. 

 

102. You’re driving me wild with pleasure.

 

103. I’m eager to see what magic you can work with your tongue.

 

104. I love feeling your touch on me.

 

105. The feeling of you taking control and dominating me is boiling!

 

106. I wish I could stay in your arms all day.

 

107. There’s nothing hotter than watching your focused face while you do it.

 

108. I just want to be completely yours in bed.

 

109. Take control and ravish me like never before.

 

110. I love it when you hold my arms above my head.

 

111. Getting chills when you grab my hair turns me on.

 

112. There’s something incredibly hot about pinning you down.

 

113. I wish we weren’t in public. I wish we were alone together, if you catch my drift. 

 

114. I’m excited to show you what I’m wearing. I think you’ll like it!

 

115. I crave feeling your release all over my face.

 

116. I want to savor every drop of your climax in my mouth.

 

117. I’ll pleasure you until there’s nothing left in your sac.

 

118. Let’s spend the whole weekend together, just us and our desires.

 

119. Nothing gets me going like seeing you when you’re angry.

 

120. Seeing you right after your workout, all sweaty, really gets me excited.

 

121. Looking into your eyes makes me feel weak in the knees.

 

122. I want to taste myself on your member.

 

123. Bring me to climax, darling.

 

124. I’m really turned on and ready for you.

 

125. I’m on the brink of ecstasy.

 

126. Oh my, that feels amazing!

 

127. I can’t wait to take you home. This anticipation is driving me crazy!

 

128. I adore seeing you in skinny jeans.

 

129. Watching you exert yourself physically is incredibly arousing.

 

130. If you behave until we’re alone, I’ll do something special that you’ll enjoy.

 

131. I have something to tell you: I desire you. Like, now.

 

132. Tonight’s on my mind, and I’m already getting thrilled.

 

133. I want to feel your breath touching my skin.

 

134. It’s so wonderful when we’re together!

 

135. I’m tuned into a song that’s sparking some wild thoughts about you! If you were here, we might just act on them 😉

 

136. Can you guess what’s on my mind? Okay, here’s a hint. It involves my mouth and you without clothes.

 

137. Confession: Sometimes, I can’t resist touching myself when thoughts of you take over.

 

138. Ever had a dream with me in it? Tell me honestly.

 

139. If you could do anything to me, what would it be?

 

140. Work feels dull… especially when I’m caught up thinking about this hot guy I know and his great physique.

 

141. Hey, just wanted to say if you ever need a hand, I’m here for you. Literally… or something.

 

142. I know you’re not a magician, but your mouth is pretty amazing. I can think of a few places I want it right now.

 

143. I could use some help with sunscreen right now. And I’ll need help taking off the bikini later.

 

144. I just finished dinner, but do you want to come over for dessert? Bring whipped cream and easy-to-remove clothes.

 

145. What’s the naughtiest thought you’ve had about me? I know mine about you.

146. All I can think about is getting naughty with you. 

 

147. Wish I was in bed with you right now.

 

148. I just finished some solo fun while thinking of you for about an hour. You’re really something.

 

149. Jerked it recently? 

 

150. I need you naked. Like, now. 

 

How to Choose the Best Text to Send

Now that you have seen up to 150 text ideas to send to him, which one would actually work for him and make him turn on? 

The answer is that you shouldn’t pick the text if you know he’s not into what it says. The best way to turn him on with texts that will really excite him is to customize them to his specific likes.

If he has a particular fetish, start with that before moving on to other dirty messages.

Also, make sure it doesn’t sound forced because if it does, it loses its impact.