Cuddling is an act of expressing and releasing emotions and that’s why you have to know how to ask for it in a way that the person would be willing to give you consent.
If you know your way with words, you won’t have a problem figuring out flirty ways you can ask someone to cuddle but if you do not, this article will come in handy for you because, you will be educated on cute and playful ways you can directly or indirectly pass across the message, that you want to cuddle.
So all you have to do after reading this article to the end is to get your arms ready because someone would be ready to wrap him or herself in it.
List of 30 Flirty Ways To Ask Someone “ You Want A Cuddle”
- Cuddling is my hobby, do you want to share my hobby with me?
- There is a deep part of me that wants to cuddle but only with you.
- What can I do to get a cuddle from you tonight?
- All I want to do is watch Netflix while wrapping myself around you, do you mind?
- You and I can agree to cuddle all through the night, right?
- Cuddling is my jam, do you mind jamming with me?
- I have a really big bed and no one to cuddle with me on it, do you mind being that person?
- My bed has been so cold lately, would you mind keeping it warm for me?
- I need my daily dose of cuddles, do you mind administering my dosage to me?
- This is the part where I wrap myself around you, if you would let me.
- My cuddle battery is low, do you mind charging it for me?
- I need someone that will always have to cuddle me, could you be that person?
- I have a very soft blanket perfect to keep two people warm, want to be the second person?
- I want to wrap my arms around you, could you allow me to fulfill my desires?
- I keep craving for a cuddle, do you mind satisfying my craving?
- I have got a bed ready to accommodate two people tonight, are you down for it?
- What does it take to get a cuddle from someone as muscular as you?
- I have a slight headache that only your cuddle can help relieve, do you mind relieving me of it?
- I know a place where we can spend quality time and cuddle our hearts out, do you care to come with me?
- Your chest keeps making me want to cuddle you, do you think I should give in?
- What is missing from this moment is a cuddle, should we add what is missing?
- The weather is quite cold, do you mind keeping me warm?
- This weather is not for tea but for two, care to be the number two?
- I have tried using so many pillows but none feels good to cuddle with, should I try you?
- Let’s come together to defeat the challenges of cold weather, don’t you think?
- My bed is quite sad because it feels so empty without you, please make it happy, would you?
- I forget all my problems whenever I cuddle you, would you help me forget my problems again today?
- I think that fireworks are made from our cuddles, do you mind creating some spark tonight?
- If you and I don’t cuddle tonight, it would be another big mistake. Do you want to make another big mistake?
- I think I am suffering from a cuddle deficiency, care to be the remedy to it?
Cuddling is my hobby, do you want to share my hobby with me?
Flirting is a playful thing and it is vital to always keep that fact in mind. You can be creative by saying that cuddling is your hobby and you are requesting that he or she shares your supposed hobby with you.
It could get any person you’re asking to laugh and probably give in to your request.
There is a deep part of me that wants to cuddle but only with you.
Imagine telling someone that a ‘deep’ part of you is willing or desires to cuddle them, this would make the person elicit a positive emotion because you asked in such a way that they feel desired.
You can choose to do it your way or style but what is important is that you are speaking from your heart and not from your head.
What can I do to get a cuddle from you tonight?
Asking questions like this could make anyone feel like you are flirting with them because you are practically asking that such a person is someone that you are willing to go the extra mile just to be able to cuddle with them which is very flirtatious.
All I want to do is watch Netflix while wrapping myself around you, do you mind?
What better moment than a moment where you have yourself wrapped around someone else while watching a romantic series on Netflix? I have yet to find such a moment honestly.
You and I can agree to cuddle all through the night, right?
Asking if someone can cuddle throughout the night shows that you are invested in having physical contact with them for a long period.
It could also translate to the fact that you are not disgusted by them and you find them invading your personal space enjoyable which is a big deal.
Cuddling is my jam, do you mind jamming with me?
Saying “cuddling is my Jam, do you mind Jamming with me” is a funny and flirty way of getting or asking someone if they want a cuddle because, in this context, your creativity has led you to say that cuddling is your jam and you would not mind if they ‘jam with you.’
If you are going to be a great flirt, then you need to step up your game by using a flirty line like this.
I have a really big bed and no one to cuddle with me on it, do you mind being that person?
Adding elements for flirting is a wise move to make. It not only gives you an edge over the situation but it also helps you to get more positive answers from the person you are asking from.
My bed has been so cold lately, would you mind keeping it warm for me?
Using figures of speech shows that you are vast in the use of language and using it as a tool to get what you want and to express yourself uniquely.
Saying that your bed is cold is a brilliant way of diverting the attribute possessed by only humans to a non-living thing which is your bed.
I need my daily dose of cuddles, do you mind administering my dosage to me?
Another flirty line that you can use for your crush or someone that you want to cuddle is that you can say to them that you need your medicine [ a cuddle] and only they can be able to administer those drugs or medicine to you.
This is the part where I wrap myself around you if you would let me
I would not call this the typical direct question but it’s clear to see that there is a form of request and a need for consent to be able to take the next step with such a person.
I recommend that you try this on a day when you are alone with your partner and the mood is set for a cuddle.
My cuddle battery is low, do you mind charging it for me?
Having a cuddle battery is ridiculous but when it comes to flirting, you have to be as ridiculous as possible to create an atmosphere where the other person can let loose and try other things like cuddling.
I need someone that will always have to cuddle me, could you be that person?
This is a very brilliant flirtatious line to ask someone if they want a cuddle. It has all the elements of romance wrapped up in it.
You are saying that you need someone alongside the cuddles that they offer, essentially making this a sort of proposal that is more serious and highly romantic.
I have a very soft blanket perfect to keep two people warm, want to be the second person?
This is a statement and a question in one sentence. It is a genius way to ask in a flirtatious manner if someone wants to cuddle because it indicates things that are associated with cuddling, like a soft blanket, and the desire to be warm.
Whenever you’re asking a person this kind of question, you must make your voice relaxed, to set the mood for a nice cuddle.
I want to wrap my arms around you, could you allow me to fulfill my desires?
Instead of saying the typical direct question, ‘you want a cuddle’ you can make it more fun to ask by saying that you want to wrap your hand around them.
I keep craving a cuddle, do you mind satisfying my craving?
Words are so powerful and it depends on how you are willing to express yourself that you can be able to get a positive response. Call cuddling a craving and see if they can satisfy it.
I have got a bed ready to accommodate two people tonight, are you down for it?
To create a greater effect on them, you can let down your tone and gaze into their eyes as this would help the individual to feel overwhelmed by the moment and to set the mood for a sizzling cuddle session
What does it take to get a cuddle from someone as muscular as you?
Whatever makes or fits the situation is what should be included as a question, it might not be their muscles but their chest, all you have to pass across is that you are ready to cuddle with them.
I have a slight headache that only your cuddle can help relieve, do you mind relieving me of it?
Whether you are saying to a girl or a boy, you are going to get their heart to melt so fast and consequently get the cuddle that you are requesting with a cheesy line like this.
You have to be able to go to any lengths by making up a funny scenario or something that would require that they cuddle you to be able to solve the problem.
I know a place where we can spend quality time and cuddle our hearts out, do you care to come with me?
Saying that you know a place where you can spend time with them is a cool style that makes your flirting game, playful, but also very smooth and topnotch for whatever context you might find yourself in.
You can also go as far as setting up a place for the both of you to be able to cuddle as long as you want.
Your chest keeps making me want to cuddle you, do you think I should give in?
If the person you’re addressing is a man, then this kind of line would be more effective. Complimenting a man by saying he has a broad and strong chest could send a message that you feel safe with him.
This could not only make them feel like you are flirting with them, but it can also make them laugh, which is a very good method of flirting with someone. Try using a line like this on that girl or boy you want to cuddle with and watch the magic happen.
What is missing from this moment is a cuddle, should we add what is missing?
Another way to creatively ask someone to cuddle you is this line. It implies that if something is missing then it needs to be found. In this case, a cuddle moment is missing and it should be found.
It creates a sort of humor because you are saying that the person is going to fill in the missing moments which is to cuddle. Asking this flirty question is definitely a smart choice.
The weather is quite cold, do you mind keeping me warm?
Lines like this could make the atmosphere lighter and create an environment where there could be room to move to the next level of physically touching each other which is something I am sure you want in the first place.
Sometimes when the weather is cold, it creates the opportunity to cuddle with someone you like.
This weather is not for tea but for two, care to be the number two?
This plays with the use of ‘t’ in the word, tea and two. It means that you are willing to go the extra mile to be creative and to request that they be the second person to complete the pair.
I am sure that with a line like this, you won’t only be drinking tea when it’s cold, you will have someone beside you to keep you warm.
I have tried using so many pillows but none feels good to cuddle with, should I try you?
It’s important to be polite when you’re trying to ask someone if you want a cuddle. A line like this is hilarious and properly sends the message that you are looking forward to cuddling with the person.
You have a lot of pillows but only the person can successfully make you feel loved and comforted.
Let’s come together to defeat the challenges of cold weather, don’t you think?
Asking if you and the person could come together to defeat the challenges of cold weather is an indirect way of asking that you want a cuddle from them and depending on how fast the wit of the person is, he or she will be able to grasp the message that you are trying to pass across to them.
My bed is quite sad because it feels so empty without you, please make it happy, would you?
You don’t have to worry too much about what ways you can flirt with your crush anymore, with this line you’re certainly getting that cuddle that you truly need.
Using the element of personification where you’re saying that the bed is sad because of the person’s absence, you have successfully passed the message that only their cuddle can make you happy.
I forget all my problems whenever I cuddle you, would you help me forget my problems?
This means that you have found the remedy to your problems in cuddling the person which would translate to the person that when they cuddle you, they are solving your problems. This would certainly get you a positive response.
Everyone likes to feel needed and this question also passes the message that you are in dire need of the person.
I think that fireworks are made from our cuddles, do you mind creating some spark tonight?
This line could make the person you’re asking this question spark like fireworks.
You’re indirectly saying that beautiful things like ‘fireworks,’ happen to you when you cuddle with them, which is why you’re asking them for it.
If you and I don’t cuddle tonight, it would be another big mistake. Do you want to make another big mistake?
One word to describe this flirty line to ask someone if they want a cuddle is, ‘amazing.’
It means that not cuddling with the person is a huge mistake and you don’t want that to happen anymore. At the end of it, you’re asking if they also feel the same way.
I think I am suffering from a cuddle deficiency, care to be the remedy to it?
If you perhaps playfully term cuddling someone as a ‘life or death’ situation, then the person could have mercy on you and decide to give you a positive answer.
You just have to be considerate of the time at which you utter a flirty request like this.
Final Thoughts
I don’t know about you but if someone made use of any of these lines to ask me if I would like to cuddle with them, I would not think twice about it before saying yes.
Without a creative mind, flirting would be impossible and that is why you must make use of these lines in the most creative way you can.
Allow yourself to soak in the moment before asking these types of questions, you would not want to ask for a cuddle when a person is talking about something completely out of that context.