50 Flirty Responses to “How Are You”

Most times when someone asks you, “How are you,” it is born out of a feeling of concern and affection for you, they genuinely want to know how you are faring and perhaps would like to help you feel better in case you’re not fine.

In the context of flirting, it’s sort of different, and this is a slightly different question because it is a good question to open a conversation with someone that you might have a crush on to indicate that you’re into them and would like to know more about them.

That’s why it is crucial to decode this message and reciprocate with a flirty response as well, this would help build the momentum and ultimately lead to something beyond just flirting around.

With my expertise on the subject of flirting, I have decided to create a list of 50 flirty responses to ‘how are you’, in case you find yourself in that situation.

I am confident that after reading the entire content of this article, coming up with flirtatious lines wouldn’t be so hard anymore.

Here is the list of 50 flirty responses to “how are you” in case your crush or partner texts or verbally asks

1. Honestly, I feel like a newborn baby because you have just asked me that question. My day was not going so well until you decided to check up on me, words can describe how happy I am that you have finally [ texted or called] depending on the channel], how are you today as well?
2. I am doing fine now that you have decided to ask, you know how I feel whenever you are thoughtful towards me, it gives a glimmer of hope that I still have a chance to make you mine and be the only one you think about. I have not done anything much other than the fact that I have been anticipating hearing your voice.
3. Now that I am talking to you, I am completely better and satisfied. Thanks for checking up on me because I was afraid that you did not really care about me as much as I do about you, anymore. Hope you are okay by the way? You are free to tell me anything and everything.
4. I would be an absolute liar if I did not express the degree at which I have been thinking about you. You asking me how I am is all the validation that I need to push things further with you. Do you mind coming over to my place so that we can talk about how I have been feeling about you all day?
5. What took you so long? I have literally been staring at my phone all day anticipating your question. I did not want to ask first because I didn’t want to look like a burden to you and scare you away. I am so thrilled that what I have been waiting for has finally come to pass. To answer your question straight, I am fine.
6. I can believe I am getting so excited over a simple question such as ‘How are you’ because I am pleased with the fact that it is coming from you? I am fine but I just want you to know that the only reason that I am fine is because you are speaking to me so always speak to me so that I can be fine or better as a person.
7. I am doing great, I am sure that if you were here, I would have had even more fun. I wonder how you are feeling without me around, is it like the feeling that I get when you’re not with me? Do you get so lonely and not as excited as you would normally be? This is how I am whenever you’re not in a place where I can see you and be able to hold your hands so tightly.
8. I am doing well but if you asked me what would make my day perfect right now, the answer would be to see your beautiful face. I get delighted whenever I hear your voice, see your face, touch your skin, and when you ask me simple questions like ‘how are you.’ The simple truth is that you are the one that makes my day become a perfect one.
9. Being apart from you made me realize that I need you in my life and that’s the only way that I can get better as a person. The answer to your question has now been confirmed, which is that I can not be okay without you, which means that I am not fine. Let’s be together so that I can be well again and not have to live in this misery called life.
10. Pretty good, I must admit that there could be better days if only I could just ask questions like this often, anything to make me connected and close to you because, at this point, I have become so uncertain about my well-being when you are not next to me. I am just being honest, I would not want to lie to someone I value so much.
11. I am not fine and if you ask me why, I would say it is all your fault. It is your fault because you didn’t ask me this question sooner and you made me anticipate your voice/words for such a long time. Don’t you understand how much I care about you and how much I need an amazing person like you in my life? I just wish that we could be together forever.
12. That’s not the right question to ask. I believe the right question to ask is, how are you without me? And the honest answer to that is that I can not live well or fine without you. You turn my darkness into light and make the burning sun look like rainbows, I hope that you get the message that I am trying to pass across.
13. I am not too good and you better be feeling the same as well because you and I are not together which makes me feel some sort of depression. I love when you weirdly laugh, the way that you flip your hair gets me overwhelmed with joy in my heart. I do not want to ever be apart from you again in my entire lifetime.
14.  I am better now that I get to hear from you. I love it when I am around you and when you genuinely ask about how I am. It affirms just how caring and loving you are towards me. I have never regretted the day that I chose to be together with you. I am an amazing person like you. How can I thank you enough for being with me up till this point?
15. People who see me outside will think that I am happy but I am not actually fine and the reason is because I am not next to you to cuddle you to sleep and to make you laugh with all my bad jokes. I wish god could just grant me my wish which is to see you and to finally have you in my arms.
16.  How can I be happy or fine when there is no reason to? When you are with me, I get so happy, but when you are not with me, I begin to get sad. So you know the answer to the question you asked because you are aware of how I get when I am not with you. When will we get to see so that I feel the emotion called ‘happiness,’ once again?
17. I wonder when we would skip the ‘how are you’ stage because the truth of the matter is that I find you attractive and I know you feel the same way too. Let’s not waste any more time and just take our relationship to the next level and we won’t have to ask how we are because we will be sure that we are fine because we have each other to rely on and become one.
18. I am trying so hard to survive without you in my life right now. I feel like you are just trying to taunt me by asking that question because deep down, you know that I have been miserable without you in my life. I wish that you could just stop asking me how I am, it makes me feel horrible that I already am.
19. If you could be such a darling and just kiss me on the lips then I am certain that I would become a better man. I miss you so much that every person I see reminds me of you. I wonder how you are coping without me as well. It’s just really hard to explain how I am at this stage. I am not willing to spend another day without you being it and that is the final decision.
20. I am so moved that you asked because I have been dying to tell you how badly I miss you and how my day is not going too well since you are not with me. I hope you are doing great. I can almost feel you close to me when I sleep at night. All I have is my mind to think about you.
21. Could you ask me that question every day so that I can express my thoughts to you without having to feel like I am a burden to you? You make my heart skip so fast and now you are asking how I am. It is obviously not fair that you can live without me and I can’t do the same. I do not think I can forget you at this point.
22. Everything just keeps going well since the day you became mine. I am feeling so happy right now with the thoughts of you being my everything and my treasure that I cherish so much. How are you as well? Have you had breakfast or just like me, you are filled with the thoughts of you and I together. I have fallen in love with you.
23. I am getting better as this goes by. I have finally found my shortcut to complete happiness and that is to be with you and that is why I am asking the ultimate question, will you make me the happiest person on planet Earth by becoming the one that I spend the rest of my life with.
24. I do not know how to answer that question at this moment because I have all sorts of different emotions running through me and it is all because of you and me not getting to spend so much time together like we used to. I could literally smile all day when I held your hands but now that I can not, it seems like nothing can make me smile anymore.
25. I am happy now that you are asking. I would have had to live a boring and sad life if you had not asked that question sooner. I appreciate how wonderful you are and how much you care about my happiness. Well since you care about my happiness so much, why don’t you do me honors and be my girlfriend/boyfriend [depending on the person’s gender]
26. I would have loved it if we could see so that you can get to see how unhappy I am to not see you for this long. I pray that the Lord has mercy on me so that I can see whom my heart beats for so that I may have peace again and be comforted by your warm embrace until the day I breathe my last.
27. What exactly do you want me to say? Do you want me to say the truth which is that I am not feeling great because I do not know how to survive without you or do you want me to lie to you that everything is good well and I am overjoyed that the person that I have been with for such a long time is no longer with me and does not love me a much as I lover her/him?
28. Well, I am willing to let you know that I desire to kiss you right now so that I can feel better and be able to have a great day ahead without any form of confusion and chaos. I believed that if you could just be in my arms, you would not have. I will not have to think so deeply about how life could be tough because you make it easier for me.
29. I would be okay if you could book another date this Friday night because we both know that we relieve each other of stress and any feelings that are not good for us. I miss you a lot and I can not wait for your feedback on my idea. I hope you agree to go out on a date sometime.
30. How could somebody just have this kind of power you possess over me? I Could bet that minutes ago before you asked this question, I have been so moody and grumpy with anyone who talked or even smiled at me. The moment you asked me this question, I began to have a much brighter day. I think that you have become the determiner of my happiness and smile.
31. I have just had a brilliant idea as to answer you on this. Do you mind going on a date with me so that I can tell you all about the brilliant idea I have? I am not kidding when I say that you are someone that I would not mind seeing every day and anytime because you rock my world.
32. Why should I have to be the one who suffers this way because I love you so much that I think life without you is meaningless? I am saying this from the depth of my heart, I want to be the one who makes you smile and the only person that you want to see grow old with you. I would be fine if only you could be mine.
33. I am staying positive, what are you up to? You better not be with someone else by the time I get back because you know how I jealously guard the person that I have chosen to love and admire. I trust you anyway, you are a loyal and patient person.
34. I have you in my mind all day. At least I can use that as a means to survive and to hold on till the day that I can get to see you again. Should we find a place to meet and catch up? I am starting to run out of patience and I am not really satisfied with the idea of not seeing each other for some time.
35. Would you not find it weird that I said that I am doing fine knowing fully well that I can not see your face right now? What do you want me to do so that I can prove to you that I truly care about you? I do not just want to be an ordinary friend to you, I want to be more if you would allow me to.
36. I should be the one asking that question because I have been thinking about you all day. I can not help but ask questions, in my head like, have you had dinner? Hope you’re not feeling too cold because you don’t have me to make you feel warm. What are you doing, are you thinking about what I am doing as well?
37. I just finished a slice of cake and tasted so delicious but not tastier than your lips anytime I  kiss it. I wish you were here with me so that I can get a chance to taste something sweeter than cake all the time. I am not trying to talk dirty, it is just how I feel that I am expressing to you.
38. I am just here in this lonely world looking forward to the day that I will have you in my arms and absorb all the love that I am feeling towards you. I wish that I could protect you where you are right now but I assure you that we will meet again and when that time comes, I will not let you out of my sight.
39. Have you ever seen a car running without gas in it? Or have you ever heard that a monkey no longer likes bananas, these analogies are just my way of saying that I really can not live well without you.
40. When are we going to go beyond these lines? I don’t know about you but I am sure that you are all I need and I am not satisfied with the level of closeness we have.
41. I can say that I am happy now that you just asked me about it. I totally would not be feeling this way if you did not ask me this question at this moment.
42. I thought that you had let me go in your memories but I just want you to know that I can never let go of your images in my mind.
43. What are we even doing? Why don’t you ask me questions like, are you free to go out this weekend, how often do i think of you? Well, the answer to the last question is that I think about you often.
44. Where are we heading to if we keep asking questions like this? We are adults and we are both aware of the nasty things that we want to do to each other, so why don’t we just do it?
45. I am literally on cloud nine because you have finally spoken to me. I can’t help myself whenever I hear your lovely voice.
46. I am trying so hard to forget about you. I want to know why you refuse to leave my thoughts and why I get excited when you ask how I am.
47. Do you think that we are meant for each other? I do not think I can be okay without you in my life, [ the name of the person.
48. I am perfectly fine when you are speaking to me but when you are not, it seems the world does not make sense anymore.
49. I planned to be fine today but after thinking about how far away I am from you, it made me begin to feel moody.
50. What is so difficult about asking about how I feel about you? I would gladly tell you how much I love and need you

In Final Words…

Depending on the context, you have to prepare skillfully on how to give a flirty response to just about anything with your partner or crush.

“How are you” being a commonly asked question, makes you more brilliant if you can utilize these flirty responses as they suit you, to make your partner laugh and blush a  little.

Feel comfortable to make the lines resonate with your personality and style so that you can properly personalize these flirty responses to ‘How are you.’

Don’t forget to drop your thoughts on these lines that I prepared for you in this article, in the comment section below.