Have you ever had to deal with a cheating partner? How did you handle it?
Finding out that your partner is cheating can be very painful. Whether you’re married to them or not, having someone you love break your trust in this manner, is not something someone wishes to experience.
Unfortunately, no one can guarantee that it won’t happen to them.
In this article, I’ve compiled some tweets I discovered about people talking about their cheating partners. Check them out and share your thoughts.
25 People Rant About Their Cheating Partners on Twitter
1. DoreenNasaasira has a strong feeling that her boyfriend is cheating on her. She doesn’t have any evidence, just a strong feeling because he has changed a lot.
And now she needs tips on how to find out. What advice do you have for her?
Well, I’ll advise that rather than think he’s cheating because he has changed, she should try to find out if he’s going through stress at work or if he’s facing some difficulties.
Since he hasn’t done anything that questions his loyalty, she should try to be there for me and find out what could be causing the change of attitude.
2. Wow! What a bad time for GabbyEpstein1 to find out that their boyfriend is cheating on them. Not just cheating on them, but has been cheating the entire time they started a relationship.
This can hurt twice as much, discovering that he has been deceiving them the entire time and realizing that they’ve been taken for a fool the entire relationship.
In fact, realizing that their partner has been taking them for a fool the entire time will probably hurt more than catching them cheating red-handed.
I only hope the rest of 2020 wasn’t bad for them.
3. If you were in Yikesfenty’s shoes, would you play it cool like they did?
They just discovered their boyfriend is cheating but decided to act like they aren’t aware while planning to catch him red-handed or expose him.
I think this is a great move by Yikesfenty because trying to confront him directly can get him to deny it.
While it might hurt, they should keep playing along until they can find something to hold him for.
4. This is quite saddening from av6lon. First, why would they think that it’s because they’re not good enough and that he’s cheating on them?
Unfortunately, this is the way some people feel when their partner cheats on them. They feel that it’s a fault of theirs.
Oh no, you shouldn’t in any way blame yourself for your partner’s infidelity. Even though there are certain things you might be doing wrong, a partner who loves you would find ways to correct you in love and not take it as an excuse to cheat.
There’s no excuse for cheating. So, dear av6lon, it’s not your fault that your boyfriend is cheating on you.
And yes, it’s time you left. I hope you find healing.
5. Another story of a cheating partner from lafrenierechel1. Hmm, I can imagine how hurt lafrenierechel1 must be feeling to discover her boyfriend is cheating on her with multiple girls.
First, cheating is one heartache on its own, but cheating with multiple women is multiple heartaches.
Wow! Her boyfriend indeed is a scam. He was never real in the first place. It just took her quite some time to find out. I hope she recovers quickly.
6. What can be more painful than this discovery from ThamieKunene?
So people can descend so low to hurt someone deeply like this? Cheating on their partner with someone bearing the same name, so it wouldn’t be easy for them to find out.
Hmm, the girl is likely deceiving the two of them. She has probably convinced the other guy that he’s the one while convincing this one that he’s the one. And since they bear the same name, it has been easy for her to pull it through.
Wow! Just wow!
Dear, ThamieKunene, don’t dwell too much on it. Just focus on something worth the stress.
7. How does the girlfriend of I_die_4_nyashhh expect them to feel after telling them they were thinking about them the whole time?
Was she trying to make them feel better? Was she trying to make herself feel better?
Seriously, this reply is like a slap to the face, it’s like calling them a fool to their face.
Well, I only hope I_die_4_nyashhh removes themselves from such disrespect.
8. Another crazy cheating story from iamthespid.
Hearing stories of partners cheating with the other’s boss seems like something far-fetched until it happens to you.
I can only imagine how iamthespid must be feeling. Should they confront their boss? They probably wouldn’t because they want to keep their job.
First, who’s to blame here? What if the boss knew she was his girlfriend but still went ahead and approached her?
Or what if the girl never knew he was the boss? Well, no matter how it’s played, cheating is cheating and your partner owes it to you to be faithful.
So, whether the boss approached the girl first, she was very much responsible for her actions.
I only hope iamthespid makes the right decision.
9. What do you make of this tweet from olawale_IBCITY?
Do you think they’re serious? Well, let’s believe they are. If your girlfriend gives you this response as the reason for cheating on you, what will be your reaction?
As for me, I’m walking out of the relationship at that moment. You can’t make a fool of me twice.
10. Hmm, what can you make of this post from Trance_OCE?
What do you think putting her in her place means? What do you think they must have done to achieve that?
I think someone sounding like this might probably be the one taking care of her financially and that’s why they could use the words, “Put her in her place.”
Hmm, well, the only reasonable action I believe that should’ve been taken was “walking away.”
But, who am I to judge? They alone know how their relationship has been.
11. This is another story about unfaithful partners from MeekCEO. He’s aware of his wife’s infidelity but he doesn’t care, and rather than confront her, he wants to take revenge.
What do you think of his idea of revenge?
First, he claims he doesn’t care, which means he doesn’t love her anymore or he doesn’t love her as much as he did.
Now, his plan for revenge also shows that he probably hates her for her infidelity. While I can’t claim to understand his pain, because only he knows what they’ve been through together, I don’t like the idea of revenge.
I think revenge will cause more pain and hurt. So, rather than trying to pay her back, since he has evidence, he should confront her with them. And if he feels he can no longer live with her, he should file for a divorce.
What do you advise he does?
12. ScottOstrin thinks his wife is cheating on him because of her phone ringing in the middle of the night and her not answering.
Also, the wife claims it’s a potential scam. So, what do you think of his thoughts about her cheating, and her story of potential spam?
Well, since he claims it has happened more than once, it seems she’s likely cheating
Moreover, she has refused to pick up the call, which makes it more suspicious.
I can only suggest he keeps it cool while quietly trying to find out who the potential scam is.
13. Hmmm, this is a big one from SirTruthAlott
The wife cheated on him with her boss and her family asking him to divorce him. First, why do some families like butting into the business of married couples?
You hear family trying to dictate what their daughter or son should do in their marriage, forgetting they’re now in their own family and should make decisions with their spouse.
And from SirTruthAlott’s story, it seems the wife’s family wants the boss for their daughter. He probably has more money.
Well, my advice for SirTruthAlott is that he should do what he wants. If he thinks he still wants to work it out with his wife he should. He should only divorce her if he’s no longer willing to make it work.
14. Hmm, this tweet from 912CroozeFM is interesting.
So apparently this man loves the wife but it’s obvious the wife holds no regard for him. How can someone be married for only two years and have cheated twice?
Wow! I’m surprised he’s still in the marriage. And now that he’s no longer comfortable, it’s a sign that he should release himself.
The wife probably loves someone else or has a promiscuous nature. Someone like this has no business getting married.
My advice for him is to let her go, but if he feels he can still make it work, then asking the wife to go for therapy it’s the next best action.
15. This tweet from WasAlanSmithee sounds hilarious. However, it can be painful to hear this from your partner.
What kind of mistake did the wife make? How would she explain herself when she gets home?
It’ll be worse if she doesn’t return in 15 minutes because it’ll confirm the husband’s suspicion.
I just hope he handles it well.
16. This is another sad tweet from TweetShaming21. Despite her efforts to keep her home, making things comfortable for her husband while he only schooled and did nothing else to contribute to the running of the home, he still cheated on her.
What can you say about this man? Is it that he no longer loved her or he never did?
But, even though he stopped loving her, how about respecting her? How about respecting the woman that’s sacrificing a lot for you?
Sadly, there are many people like this out there.
Also, I agree with what she said about cheating not having anything to do with the actions and inactions of a spouse. It’s a choice people make all by themselves.
I can only wish TweetShaming21 finds healing.
17. This is another crazy post from ajibawealth_i that makes you wonder what’s going on with people in relationships.
Why do people have to cheat because their partner is cheating? Two wrongs have never made a right.
I don’t see the reason why someone has to cheat because their partner is cheating to get even. What happens to walking away?
You don’t have to throw away your moral compass because of some other person or to suit your ego.
Apparently, ajibawealth_i’s girlfriend got more than what she bargained for. She wouldn’t have felt the need to marry her husband if she had talked to him rather than cheated.
18. Hmm this is a very serious one from gerogenjoroge_. What do you think the woman should do about him? Do you think she’s bitter?
Well, first, I don’t think she’s a bitter person. She’s only hurt, and it’s not out of place to react the way she did.
Also, I feel she should’ve divorced him much earlier. But, now that she’s ready to divorce him, he’s in bad shape.
Well, I think she should do what she’s at peace with. If she divorces him, his family who has never really cared can take care of him or find someone to.
However it turns out for him, he’ll be only suffering a consequence of his actions.
And again, she can take care of him until he’s better and divorce him later.
Moreover, who knows? this opportunity might be what they need to get the marriage working again. If she thinks there’s a tiny chance of saving her marriage, taking care of him is an opportunity to explore the chance.
I just hope she makes the right decision that makes her happy in the end. She doesn’t have to listen to his family.
19. This is a bad time for Økcal_lych33tea. Having to deal with an anxiety crisis, recalling past traumas, and seeing signs that their boyfriend is cheating; it’s all too much for one person.
What I think Økcal_lych33tea needs to do I’d focus on themselves. Rather than dwell on whether their partner is cheating or not, they should focus on dealing with their crisis.
A cheating partner is nothing compared to all that they’re going through. They owe themselves that.
20. What do you have to say to to_the__bone who has no proof that their boyfriend is cheating but is swearing to it?
The best they can do for themselves is to ignore something they’ve no proof of.
Also, since they lack something that might lead to some discoveries, like the boyfriend acting suspicious, they shouldn’t bother about their feelings. It’s a feeling and feelings can be wrong.
21. This is quite hilarious from indemosidney. Her biggest flex is to find the person her boyfriend is cheating on her with and beat them up and probably end up in prison.
Oh, maybe they’re not thinking about that part. They’re not thinking about the consequences of their actions before acting like many people do.
Well, while she looks forward to beating up some stranger, I hope she realizes before it’s too late that the girl is not the problem.
And even if the girl is, I hope she realizes that beating her up won’t solve any issue rather than feed her pride.
Moreover, the boyfriend is the problem. He’s the one who’s supposed to be loyal. For all that we know, the girl he’s cheating with might not even know he’s in a relationship.
I hope she gets to see this.
22. What answer are you providing CptJohnShowCat?
They want to know if acting immediately after finding out that their partner is cheating even if it means driving 45 minutes at midnight is okay.
Do you think they should do it, or wait till morning?
Well, this question is ridiculous though. And even though waiting till morning is the reasonable thing to do, I’d like to know how it turns out if they go immediately to wake him up from sleep.
23. Wow! This is quite something from bbqpiss.
First, I’m worried that they think they’re not good enough. That alone is enough to make them always feel inferior not only with the boyfriend but with others.
Also, their insecurities are probably why they might be having those dreams, which shows they need to work themselves not just for the sake of their relationship but for themselves.
24. What do you think of this post from Smilinguy22? Do you think the girlfriend’s statement is enough to make them think that she’s cheating?
Well, I just think both of them are unserious.
25. Wow! This is a crazy way to find out about your cheating partner. ItsBodhiYo must have been very shocked to discover her infidelity in this manner.
Well, she’s an ex. All good for them.